30.2%
of women in the U.S. experienced psychological aggression from an intimate partner in their lifetime.
That represents about 38.6 million women.
Source and data date ↗U.S. reference data
Emotional abuse and coercive control statistics.
National data can put language around experiences that are often hard to explain. These figures use the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s latest U.S. survey of intimate partner violence.
Last updated July 22, 2026. Source data: 2023/2024.
What this measures
The CDC calls it psychological aggression.
In the CDC survey, psychological aggression includes expressive aggression, such as being insulted or humiliated, alongside coercive control and entrapment. The figures below focus on the controlling behaviours people often describe as emotional abuse: monitoring, isolation, decision-making control, and control over money.
A statistic cannot define a relationship or tell anyone what to do. It can make one thing clearer: these experiences are real, measurable, and not something a person has to carry alone.
27.2%
of women experienced one or more forms of coercive control or entrapment from an intimate partner in their lifetime.
The CDC measures coercive control separately from insults or humiliation.
Source and data date ↗18.6%
of women said an intimate partner kept track of them by demanding to know where they were and what they were doing.
This was measured as a lifetime experience.
Source and data date ↗16.0%
of women said an intimate partner tried to keep them from seeing or talking to family or friends.
This was measured as a lifetime experience.
Source and data date ↗15.2%
of women said an intimate partner made decisions that should have been theirs to make.
This was measured as a lifetime experience.
Source and data date ↗8.8%
of women said an intimate partner kept them from having their own money.
This was measured as a lifetime experience.
Source and data date ↗14.0%
of women said an intimate partner threatened to hurt themselves or die by suicide because they were upset with them.
This was measured as a lifetime experience.
Source and data date ↗22.3%
of men in the U.S. experienced psychological aggression from an intimate partner in their lifetime.
That represents nearly 27.3 million men.
Source and data date ↗A wider picture
29.9% of women experienced intimate partner violence and at least one related impact.
In the same survey, nearly 1 in 3 women reported contact sexual violence, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner and at least one related impact during their lifetime. The CDC’s list of impacts includes fear, concern for safety, post-traumatic stress symptoms, injury, missed work or school, medical care, and police reports.
Read the CDC data brief ↗Methodology and sources
How to read these figures.
All statistics on this page come from a nationally weighted CDC survey of 15,609 U.S. adults, collected from September 2023 through September 2024. Estimates are population-level survey results, not a test or diagnosis for any one person’s relationship.
- CDC National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, 2023/2024Data collected 2023/2024; report released February 2026
- CDC: About intimate partner violenceAccessed July 22, 2026
Cite this page
Quinn Morgan. “Emotional Abuse & Coercive Control Statistics.” Your Clarity Matters, updated July 22, 2026.
Link to this page →When you need language
Sometimes a number is where clarity starts.
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